[Clarity] Counter-Intuitive Life Changer #3: Giving? That’s Easy

Try This Switch For a Week

Become a MASTER RECEIVER. Instead of running around trying to give to everybody, do something crazy. Run around and be available to be an next level receiver. 

If you do this here’s what will happen:

1. Your head will try to make you feel guilty, tell it your Coach told you to do it

2. You will be awkward and keep forgetting your role to ALLOW IN

3. Others will feel lifted, loved and deeply SEEN by you, who received from them

This is why feminine women get the marriage proposals ladies. They know how to receive.

A man does NOT fall in love with what YOU do FOR him. He falls in love with who HE BECOMES WHILE HE DOES FOR YOU.

Hashtag EPIC. Re-read that out loud. It applies to everybody.

I’ve mentioned this before, you need to become a better receiver.

Read more on Receiving HERE and right HERE.

Giving Gives Control, Which Alphas LOVE

Here is the part that should scare the LuLu Lemons (high end leggings) off you:

God GIVES. Are you good at receiving?

Hint: If you can’t take a compliment, ask for help or be corrected, that’s a NO.

That means you are MISSING out on your good. Your ship is sailing without you Alpha because you want to “pay your own way.”

Stop it (my two favorite coaching words).

Stop being so concerned with what you are DOING (giving is often an action managed by the head/ego) and get concerned with what you are ALLOWING to flow in to you. 

If you are like most Alphas, you’re pissed because your outflow is always larger than your in flow. THAT’S YOUR FAULT.

You will need to practice receiving. You won’t even see most of the opportunities around you to receive yet, but begin anyway.

Receiving requires you to trust the giver, trust you’ll get and get enough.

Things you are weak in. Get stronger. Stop being a Master Giver and become a Master Receiver. 

In Joy,