[Alphas] Want Joy? – Build Your Perfect (Square of) Life – #4 Mission
This is the corner Alphas love! We are Mission oriented. Let’s dive in.
First, a Mission is HOW you do your PURPOSE. See the catch? You need to reveal your Purpose BEFORE your Mission.
Your Purpose is about you and at the core of it, FOR YOU.
If you think you know Your Purpose and it’s to help impoverished women, you are not quite there yet.
Why not? Read on!
Mission is Another Indirect Goal Like Money or Weight Loss
Not a single life or soul incarnated to this time to do something for someone else. (No soul is in danger or needs saving!) The soul’s goal is the soul’s personal growth and fulfillment. You first! THAT goal, however, is always accomplished in connection with and in service to others.
Remember, I am the INDIRECT GOALS Coach.
Alphas often mess up Mission because they seek to accomplish FOR others what they are NOT doing FOR themselves.
Your Purpose is YOUR joy and expansion by doing your lessons.
Your Mission is HOW you create that joy and expansion.
My Purpose? I am a Teacher. So teaching ANYTHING lights me up (my wording for joy). Teaching Alphas is extra special because I get to save others from all the tom foolery I suffered. Yep, it’s me rescuing YOU and you know how we LOVE to rescue.
My Purpose & Mission Blended:
I feel lit up when I help Alphas stop struggling for success in Health, Wealth, Love and Mission.
To build your Mission you do not need to be clear on the HOW first, you need to be clear on the soul deep WHAT. What brings YOU joy?
Hint: Your Superpowers will be connected to your Mission. The Universe always gives you tools to do what you will naturally WANT to do to bring in your joy.
Warning: Make sure you aren’t excluding money from mission. People may think of Missions as pure “do goodery” but Missions without money usually fail.
No Mission Works Well Without Self-Love
If you don’t love yourself this complicates your Mission incredibly. Beware this thinking…
“I want my Mission. Hmm, I need my Purpose. Ok, Purpose is what makes ME feel joy… But I am not worthy of joy yet…My joy shouldn’t come first! I don’t have TIME to find what brings me joy…” Meaning? You aren’t loving you very well.
Soo…you either skip Purpose or stop at the level where your Purpose is for things OUTSIDE of you (i.e., impoverished women). Nope. Not allowed!
Without your Purpose set up for YOU, your Mission is built on a wrong foundation. It’s like trying to build a house starting on the second floor.
-> Build your Mission as a natural self-expression of what brings you JOY.
Go Build Your Mission.
P.S Missions change! Purposes not so much. My Mission has shifted several times while my Purpose only refined itself. Do not get “locked in” and stubborn Alpha once you have a Mission. God gives you “carrots” to get you to take the next step in your development, which may change your direction.
That’s why this is true: “The Lord works in mysterious ways his wonders to perform.” (You can always substitute the word LAW for Lord, as in the Universal Laws that govern us all.) I’ve been led to my next Missions in crazy ways.
Tanya Stewart is “The Alpha Woman Coach” and began coaching strong women as a Divorce lawyer in her own high conflict law firm 20 years ago. She understands how Alpha women are wired and using her Master’s level Metaphysics background and Advanced Clinical Certification in Hypnotherapy, she brings rapid change to people she works with.
She is a speaker, published author and Mensa member whose coaching is recommended by the World-Famous Motivator, Les Brown, Best-Selling Love Coach Greg Baer and International Change Expert, Dr. Eldon Taylor. She can teach you to separate struggle from success.
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